Monday, January 15, 2007

my thoughts...

What's wrong with Yossi leading her life not in the way you deem fit?
Some people are born stronger, and yet they are condemned for not showing weakness.
When the news first broke out, chaos broke out, too, in the virtual net community.
Forums were flooded with condolences when ironically who it was meant for would never read it.
First came the chants and wishes that she would be strong.
Then came the speculations as to what she had done, was doing and would be doing.
Questions raised on whether she'd appear... (for whose benefit?)

And when she eventually did, she was condemned...

So what's wrong when she continued her work? (for her commitment)
So what's wrong when she didn't shed a tear? (for you to see)
So what's wrong when she didn't show her grief? (to many disappointment)

And what's wrong with the people out there?
It's her life.
Give it back.

8 comments:

cchen1031 said...

Well Said.

I for one dont get why people are whining about another human-being not being the way they think they are or do w/e they think is the best.

We all have choices, and we dont make them according to other's but our own wills. That's the way it should be anyways.

I might have thought she should be resting and grieve in peace, but maybe she find her own consolation being surrounded by people she love and loves her , cares for her, and is able to be depeneded on.

I support her decisions. I support her as the leader. I support her as her.

And i hope for those whiner to realize what they're doing and grow up to respect another human being.

steph said...

Agree! What she wants to do after this is all up to her, all we fans can do is support her maybe give her our condolences or praises... Although sadly she won't see it.

Were there really people who whined about her decisions? I think all we CAN do is wait and see what her decisions are, no point predicting what she will do and stuff. Thats like having someone tell you what to do which I personally find IRRITATING.

No matter what I will continue to support her as long as possible even if she ever decides to quit she will be my number one fav and most respected artist of all.

katatsumuri said...

There aren't really whiners. It's just that when she didn't break down on stage. People speculate. Maybe it turned out to be something they didn't expect. Some said she's hiding her grief. Some posts even had the words "faking it". (though they don't really mean it cos they can't find other words to use.) Some said it's not doing good for her health. Some wanted her to let it all out so we can share her pain. Yes, they are all good-wishers. But I don't think she's holding back, it's just unneccessary to cry on stage. For those who've gone through similar pain, they will know, later stage of living on without your loved ones will be harder than the moment when you lose them.

hitomi-kun said...

some people are like that. unneccessary whiners. ^^

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there are times i could access your blog and there are times that i coudn't. XD

Anonymous said...

I set it to private cos of a little 'episode'.

Wonders how's everybody feeling now. Got to know that Len and noOne quite affected (and me too) Funny how mood can affect us. I totally lost the mood to write. And even if I try... the ideas go on a holiday.

crust123 said...

i dini know why they ar saying things like that. They dini know wht was going through her mind at the time. I agree with the rest of you by agreeing with her desicion to go on stage and continue even though with everything that has happend. Also did not she say once that she thought that whilst she was on stage, thats wht she thought were she gave her all or that were she really was her self, some thing like ( Its in the clip with Mai and ayaka) so why are they saying things like she was faking it

steph said...

wow that don't sound like a little episode anymore if it affects Len, noOne and your writing...

Anonymous said...

woo woo woo~ looks like that's some explaining for me to do.

First of all, for 'so rude so so rude'. I believe when they write 'faking' I believe they don't literally mean it. (We all love Yossi too much to be saying that word) Which is why I wrote, 'maybe they can't think of other words to use.' Some feel that it might be better if she let it all out instead of bottling it up.

Next for steph. The little 'episode' refers to the reason why I set my other blog private. As to a reply for Hitomi-kun's enquiry. (Notice that's a paragraph separating the two subjects?) Nothing to do with Len and noOne. Different from what is making Len, noOne and me feeling down.

I'll take note and try to write clearly next time in case it causes confusion again.